Tonje Lilleås

Acceptance

Acceptance is a word of many meanings. These days you can get a short summary of all of them from AI just typing the word into google:

“Acceptance is a broad term that can mean agreeing to or receiving something, like an offer or a gift. It also describes the state of being approved of or the act of assenting to a truth or situation.”

And in this first post in many months I want to focus on the last meaning…

Swan song – When I walk pt. 17

Swan song; a metaphorical phrase for a final gesture, effort, or performance given just before death or retirement. And the title I chose for my latest YouTube-video. Way more dramatic than I intended it to be. After all I was just photographing swans. Or attempting to.
Slow days in the mountains
All true the winter I had been missing spending time alone with my camera. So getting the opportunity to spend not just a couple of days, but more than a week…

Easter musings – When I walk pt. 16

Easter is usually packed full with traditions for us. 99% of the years since my wife and I met we’ve spent Easter with my family in Sunnmøre. It’s skiing, outdoor adventures, board games, easter eggs, quiz and a lot of amazing food. And then some.

This year however we decided to change things up. Mostly because Easter was so late this year, skiing was out of the question. But also because we wanted to experience something else together. So the…

Spring is here – When I walk pt. 15

Spring is here. And the first weeks of spring flew by as we were been busy enjoying them.

We started with a few days taking advantage of the fact that we live by Norways biggest lake. In my last post I posted a few images from our lunch at the beach to watch the partial solar eclipse. The post had nothing to do with the solar eclipse, or lunch for that matter. It was about me consuming less content. Making…

I have to consume less content

I have to consume less content. Not exactly a very bold or innovative statement, but very true nonetheless.

A lot of people talk about screen time these days. About how it’s affecting both our health and our relationships. But I’m not sure it’s my screen time that is my problem. It’s how I spend it.

My job consists of 75% screen time. I write, read and attend meetings with my eyes locked on a screen. It’s screen time, but it’s mostly…

The fear of failure

If you google “failure” you’ll get a multitude of quotes that strive to make you less scared of failing. Like Paulo Coelho “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure” or Winston Churchill “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

Lately I’ve been thinking about why we are so afraid of failing, and about why this is something that interest me right now….